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Children who are diagnosed with food allergies may have difficulty coping. Parents may be at a loss on how to help children emotionally adjusting to their new diet restrictions. Children may complain about not being able to eat whatever they want to eat. They can say things like: "Why these bad things happen to me? "" I'm so unlucky I can not eat anything I want. "

Here are some effective techniques that we can use to help to manage our children's negative emotions:

1. Reflect feelings:

If we say to the children, "Allergy is. Not so bad" or " You are making a mountain out of an elephant ", they are hearing that they have no reason to feel what they feel it creates conflicts, they are forced into a position where they must struggle to be understood, "Yes, it is bad, you never understand me!" Some children may internalize negative feelings. They will not feel themselves comfortable sharing their feelings with you. Some children will even think to himself, "Something must be wrong with the way I feel if I feel so strongly about something my parents'm not a big deal. "

Reflecting feelings helps us to avoid a negative interaction. You can simply say:
"You're really sorry your allergies, and all these new food restrictions."
"You sound like you're having a hard time getting used to this new diet. "
"You feel really sorry for not being able to get your favorite candy bar anymore."

Parents may fear that by reflecting a child's feelings, they make things worse. The opposite is true. To have someone name your feelings for you is soothing and comforting. It helps us bond with our children.

2. Use humor:

When my son would start complaining about his allergies, I would say, "One day maybe there will be a vaccine against allergies. We will be able to eat everything we want! We will both go to the supermarket and each gets a car and fill it to the top with ________ (we would list all the foods we'd love to eat but could not) and we will have an allergy picnic just us two! "Humor can diffuse tense situations in minutes and create positive emotions.

3. Accept the feelings and use the phrase: "Even though you know"

Instead of lecturing:
"You will feel so much better and has much more energy now. This is actually a good thing for you. "
"You will be much healthier, because you can not eat a lot junk food. "

Say:
"This whole makes you pretty sad. Even if you know you can be healthier, because you can not each much junk food means it does not help, when you consider all things you can not eat. "

Telling children that things are good for them not helping them. It's another tactic that increases their anger and frustration. Using the expression, "even though you know" is an effective communication tool. It is a respectful way to get your message across. It allows you to slip into your lesson, in an unassuming, subliminal, non-threatening manner. It is a great way and possibly the only way getting your child to recognize and see the benefits or any good in a difficult situation.

4. Empathize and ask "What can you do?"

When we use this technique our messages to our children is this:
-You can find solutions to your own problems.
"We have faith in your ability to handle your hard feelings.
-You have all the skills you need to behave appropriately.

It's empowering for kids to know that they can stand for themselves and their feelings. They do not have to rely on adults to keep them in line.

You can say:
"This whole allergy thing is really bothering you, what can you do to help you manage all of your angry feelings about this? "
"You seem so sad, what can you do to make yourself feel better? "

All these techniques have one thing in common: they help us to avoid denying children their right to their feelings and they support us in providing empathy and validating our children's feelings. It's this simple: Denying feelings can make children feel angry and vulnerable. Validation empathy and teach children that they can rely on us for support, and they have the inner strength to face life's challenges, in this case, food allergies, head on.

Adina Soclof, a certified Speech Pathologist, received her masters degree from Hunter College in New York in Communication Sciences. Adina worked as a Speech Pathologist in preschools for the developmentally disabled in the New York area before staying home full time with her family. She reentered the workforce as a Parent Educator for Bellefaire Jewish Children’s Bureau facilitating “How to Talk so Kids will Listen and Listen so Kids will Talk” workshops as well as workshops based on “Siblings Without Rivalry” and “Raising a Spirited Child”. She has been featured at numerous non profit organizations and private schools in Cleveland. Adina developed TEAM Communication Ventures and conducts parenting, teacher and clinician workshops via telephone nationwide. You can visit her website at http://www.ParentingSimply.com. Adina lives with her husband and four lively children in Cleveland, Ohio.

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